Wonders of Nippon

It is hard to describe life these days. We are settled in to life here in Japan, but the clock seems to tick backwards. I feel unsettled as each subsequent day subtracts from the bank of time we have left here. We have rhythms in our days, but no two are the same and each week seems to hold new surprises. We feel less strange as we have acclimated more to our surroundings, yet we will always be different and never quite fit in. I struggle between embracing the comfort time and experience has brought, and heeding to the constant restless feeling that we should be doing more. We continue to strengthen relationships and to dig in deeper, but with an awareness that time will eventually separate us from those we care about by over 6,000 miles. Yet, even when I am feeling unsettled, surprised, strange, restless, or overburdened– life continues on. And it is beautiful.

The girls are really enjoying school this year, which eases my heart. Kitty can now read and write Japanese better then English. Avalyn, my feel-everything-150%-girl, does not come home with her head down and a sour mood anymore, but happily reports most days as “good”. Sonia loves her teachers, and the fact that London will be attending school with her part time next month. The girls have been teaching London Japanese words at home to prepare her for school. They yell out words for her to repeat “boshi” hat, “kutsu” shoe, “atama” head. Today they were making her repeat silly words in Japanese like “unchi” poop and “ushiri” butt. I couldn’t hold back my laughter.

Loren’s mom came out to visit us last month and we had alot of fun together on her first trip to Japan. We took her on a road trip to Kyushu for a week, and she had some great new experiences. She used chopsticks as she ate raw fish, she kept a poker face as I took her to bathe with strangers, she followed along as we trekked volcanoes, and she did not freak out riding in a car on the opposite side of the road for a million hours next to our four children. We love sharing our new home with people and watching them as they take it all in. They learn the idiosyncrasies of the Japanese culture– bowing to everyone in every transaction, taking your shoes off wherever you go, paying in cash, new restaurant etiquette, a silent packed train, a million trash bins (or lack of), narrow roads and the under use of car seats, universal shyness and privacy, high tech toilets, love of anime, high standards, and strong work ethic. We love seeing them take in the beauty–driving through bright tree covered mountains, seeing Mt. Fuji from your airplane window, digging your toes in the salty sandy shore, eastern architecture with tall castles and tiled roofs, rice patties drowned in water that reflect the bright blue sky, kind and helpful people, sipping and slurping a perfectly seasoned bowl of ramen, clean streets, and fresh raw seafood.

We continue to take it all in. Even in the summer heat, sidewalks are bustling with pedestrians and bikers, and we join in. The passing of time is marked by the new summer flowers blooming along our daily walking paths. We eat seasonally here, and summer brings so many new delicious foods. Strawberries, plums, watermelons, and big zucchinis. Recently, we have also celebrated many birthdays and I was able to plan a trip alone back to Michigan. It was a busy trip, but the 14 hour solo plane ride was blissful enough to make up for my packed itinerary. I am so thankful Loren is such a capable and wonderful dad, the girls got their own vacation with him while I was gone. My mom and sister also came out to help with the girls so Loren could go back to work, so they got spoiled even more. We visited with my Aunt Sharon and Cousin Kristin during their vacation in Japan, taking them to the aquarium and to our favorite yakiniku restaurant.

Ocean golf views in Japan

I am so thankful for these past weeks, I hope you enjoyed reading about them as much as we did living them out. Your prayers and thoughts are always felt, even across the seas and the 13 times zones that separate Japan and Michigan. Anyone wanting to travel into the future, come visit us here in Japan and experience all of the wonders yourself! Thanks for reading.